Short answer: treat it like a conversation with an interesting adult: say hello, ask about her, listen to the answers and keep it respectful.
Openers that work
Comment on something in her room or profile, or ask how her day is going. Generic one-word messages are easy to miss.
Keep it two-way
Experienced performers often enjoy real conversation. Share a little about yourself too, without oversharing personal details.
Avoid
- Comments about her age that sound like insults.
- Demands, or requests outside her menu.
- Asking for contact details off the platform.